695 From Calling to Dating to Hooking Up: How Did We Get Here?

Class | Registration opens 2/9/2026 11:00 AM

SPRING RUN CONFERENCE ROOM 115 Farley Circle, SRCR Lewisburg, PA 17837 United States
Conference Rm.
Wednesday, March 11, 2026-Wednesday, April 15, 2026
1:00 PM-2:30 PM on Wed
$60.00

695 From Calling to Dating to Hooking Up: How Did We Get Here?

Class | Registration opens 2/9/2026 11:00 AM

This course examines American courtship from the opening decades of the 20th century to today. We will talk about when, how, and why dating replaced the 19thcentury custom of “calling”, and examine how and why dating rules changed over the next half-century before discussing the shift from dating to "hanging out” and “hooking up." Hookup culture today shapes many younger Americans' sexual and relationship expectations, so we also will consider how it is impacting their ideas about relationships and marriage. Does it promote greater personal well-being and satisfaction, or does it undermine emotional intimacy and healthy relationships? In addition to comparing calling, dating, and hookup norms and social scripts, we will talk about the social, economic, and political trends that contributed to changing courtship conventions over time and how each change shifted relationship power between men and women and between parents and youth.

There are no required texts for this course; weekly reading assignments will be emailed to students. Students must be able to access email and download attachments. For those interested in digging deeper into courtship history and hookup culture, the instructor will provide a list of book recommendations.

  • This class meets five times: 3/11, 3/25, 4/1, 4/8 and 4/15. There is no class on 3/18.
Debby Abowitz

DEBORAH ABOWITZ, professor emerita of sociology, Bucknell University, regularly taught courses about and published research on American courtship and marriage, women and the family, and millennial youth. She completed her undergraduate work at McGill University and her master's and doctorate at Brown University.